So I tried the next approach but it is not working
Comma is like an OR operator. It makes the command to be executed when either of the patterns match, not when all of them match.
And there isn't really an AND operator for :autocmd
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So you might have to use something like this:
autocmd DirEnter !**/network-folder/** if expand('%d') != '/home/my/fuse' | %select | exe 'normal ga' | %unselect | endif